What we all want....

Somehow... whenever friends, old or new, sit n talk...this topic does come up... always... n everybody has so much to say..sometimes...so much not to say... yup...

One night.. after a party.. while all of us are sittin around on the couch... laughin... smiling...n giggling....always... It comes up..someone.. somehow..brings it up... yup... Love...

Topic of Love, relationships, expectations, marriage n apparently... the good old, what does the opposite sex want? what boys want, what the girls want... conceptions, mis-conceptions...n after that round couch discussion... u just seem to feel so much clearer n light hearted n alive... n the guys just seem so much more than the always joking, never serious drunken goof ups they were few hours a go.. :-) i mean seriously.... n the girls.. Your respect for them just increased ten times....

This talk about Love, n the opposites, does bring something out of everybody... something that people always try hard to keep low... The biggest flirt talks about being used n thrown... The nerdiest guy, speaks such beautiful poetry that u can never even imagine him to speak... n the brightest ,funniest n most bubbling girl, is teary eyed... n the most talkative of the lot- silent...

Have you experienced that? At that moment, you know.. that these r the real people... The people that you have never seen before in your friends, n u may, never see again in a long time...

Love does affect everyone, doesnt it? well..

I will tell you one fact today... A fact tht I know...A fact that most girls dono.... But a fact that most girls think they know... A fact that they badly want to know... A fact they r not going to believe....

When guys hang out.. Close friends I mean...... Not just any bunch of guys...Buddies.... when they hang out... To put in simple words...When they are themselves.... They never care about the sexiest girl n school... they never talk about that voluptous actress from that last movie...

N they don't for sure, talk their dreams of the 'should be' perfect girl... They talk truth... They r plain, about how they dont expect an angel..how they would simply like the plain girl they see and how it would be so simple for her to please them... they just want the girl to put n minimum effort to keep the ship sailing.... they r all prepared for the compromise..

How they wouldnt mind her being another man's girl before... and how if she simply loved them, it would be enough for them to forget n forgive anything she had ever done before... They even talk like saints... About how they are not saints themselves... :-)

It is true... but when it comes to a guy speaking to a girl...Teling her about the girl he would love, He will always explain what he would like in his girl.. in his wife... he longs for... How he would like her to be smart, to share his passions, to be beautiful.... but always hides how he would forget all this n love the girl who can just love him back...

That is the truth n all true love stories... They love each other just for the love....

but guys... I know some of us have lost our faith in the four letter 'BS'.... I personally feel love is crap most of the times... What the hell is it... if not a sex hunt...? But then again... Give ur heart another chance... yes, you were hurt... It was bad... it broke u down... but... There must be a girl somewhere out there whose just born for you... a girl who will love you, even with all her flaws, will love u back....

n girls.. there is a guy out there who would treat you rite... accept his weakness n cuddle up n give it to you to take care of him...

Reminds me of the few lines I read in a Hallmark store...

Dance as if no one can see you,
Sing like no can hear you,
n Love like you've never been hurt...

Yes... It may hurt you sometimes....if it hurts, our friends are always there those idiot girls n guys who can make you smile no matter what... so, go for it....

You may never know what a guy or a girl really look for in the other... but it doesnt matter...
If you truly love, those dont matter...